i want to know what to do if i have an itchy feeling around my vagiana and its like irritated! and also after sexual intercourse my husband felt same around his penis and i can see its red! anyway when i urinate it burns! i washed it with medicated intimate soap and i put like a calendula pomade cream arnica as well! but it calms it for a while then its all the same again! i clean well with water and i dry it well! so what else can i do?kristina what is gonorea? and does tht mean that he has slept with someone b4 me or somthing? does he have to catch it from someone?